Sex Therapy in Portland, Seattle, & Throughout Oregon & Washington

You deserve a fulfilling sex life. I’d love to help you get there. Through affirming sex therapy, you can move closer to your sexual goals.

You might benefit from sex therapy if you:

  • Feel disconnected from your sexuality

  • Experience anxiety, shame, or guilt around sex

  • Want to increase sexual confidence or pleasure

  • Are navigating desire differences with a partner

  • Experience pain during sexual activity

  • Are exploring gender, sexual orientation, kink, BDSM, or non-monogamy

  • Feel stuck in patterns that impact intimacy and connection

  • Want support healing from sexual or relational trauma

Sex therapy can support you in:

  • Building connection to and confidence in your sexuality

  • Reducing anxiety, shame, and guilt around sex

  • Facilitating communication about desire differences and helping partners find collaborative solutions

  • Developing strategies for navigating pelvic pain and painful sex

  • Identifying your wants, needs, and desires for relationships regardless of structure

  • Deepening pleasure, desire, eroticism, and sexual satisfaction

  • Strengthening body awareness and cultivating a more embodied relationship with sexuality

  • Investigating relational patterns that impact intimacy and connection with yourself and others

  • Building sexual confidence, self-trust, and self-acceptance

  • Processing sexual and relational trauma

  • Creating relationships and sexual experiences that feel authentic, fulfilling, and aligned with your values

Meet your new sex therapist, Dr. Molly Young!

Hi! I’m a Licensed Psychologist and Certified Holistic Sex Therapist. I work with individuals and partners for sex and couples/relationship therapy. I’m so excited about the opportunity to work with you!

There are a growing number of sex therapists out there, many of whom cover a variety of topics related to sexual and relational concerns such as sexual dysfunction, desire differences, and increasing pleasure.

So, why choose to work with me over another sex therapist?

I offer a unique perspective as I specialize in working with the intersection of sexual trauma and pelvic pain/painful sex, a common concern that is frequently not addressed by other providers and dismissed in medical settings.

Additionally, I have a deep passion and care for working with clients who hold marginalized identities that are often overlooked in conversations about sexuality. For this reason, many of my clients identify as 2SLGBTQIA+, kinky, poly/non-monogamous, neurodivergent, chronically ill/disabled, sex workers, and/or formerly religious.

FAQ

What is sex therapy?

Sex therapy is a specialized form of psychotherapy that addresses concerns related to sexual health, intimacy, and relationships. It involves exploring the emotional, psychological, and physical aspects of intimacy with your partner(s) in a supportive and non-judgmental space.

Please note: Sex therapy is talk therapy. Sessions do not involve nudity, touch, sexual activity, or physical examinations.

What does sex therapy look like?

  • Exploring personal and relational history

  • Identifying patterns that impact intimacy

  • Learning communication skills

  • Processing shame and trauma

  • Building self-understanding

  • Increasing comfort discussing sexuality

  • Practicing between-session exercises and reflection

What clients do you typically work with?

I work with adults 18+ throughout Oregon and Washington. I’m an umbrella sex therapist and work with a wide variety of concerns such as desire discrepancy, pelvic pain/painful sex, sexual dysfunction, and relationship concerns.

Many of my clients identify as queer, transgender, non-binary, kinky, polyamorous, ethically non-monogamous, neurodivergent, disabled, or otherwise marginalized within traditional conversations about sexuality and relationships.

Can I attend sex therapy if I'm not currently in a relationship?

Yes. Sex therapy can be partnered or individual.

Do I need to be having sex to benefit from sex therapy?

No. We all have a relationship to sex and intimacy regardless of if we are sexually active.

Is sex therapy only for sexual problems?

No. Many people seek sex therapy to explore identity, increase pleasure, improve communication, or deepen connection with themselves and others.

Will you tell me what kind of relationship structure I should have?

No. Therapy is a collaborative space to explore your values, needs, and preferences rather than prescribing a particular relationship model.

What is your rate?

$200/50-minute session for individuals. $225/50-minute session for couples and partnerships. I offer a limited amount of sliding scale spots to those in financial need. If you are interested in sliding scale, please reach out to inquire about current availability.

Ready to get started?

Whether you're navigating changes in desire, exploring your sexuality, working through shame or past experiences, or wanting a deeper understanding of yourself, sex therapy can provide a compassionate space for growth, healing, and self-discovery.

Schedule a free 15-minute consultation to learn more and determine whether we're a good fit.